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LadyCaterpillar
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Dude, annoys me so much that that's a talking we can't have irl, without internet anonymity and shit, but it is so true. I mean, if we could talk about it, it would probably help to find a way to fix it. Like, I have a paraphilia myself (not related to anything that we are discussing here) that is linked to the only traumatic experience I have in that department, and one of the few traumatic experiences I had in general. It cannot be a coincidence, it was in my mind before I had any contact with porn at all, and, as it does, porn just fucked it up even worse. But idk, I feel like if it was common knowledge I wouldn't have watered that seed, killed it before it grew roots. IdkSex abuse victims, particularly male sex abuse victims, are significantly more likely to offend than their non-victim peers, often in a fashion not too dissimilar from their own lived experience. There's a huge conversation to be had about sexual trauma and its role in the development of illegal paraphilias. I don't have specific numbers on it, but it's at the very least a pretty common, though depressing, piece of wisdom.